New Research Shows Israelite Grandparents Played Central Role in Daily Life

February 22, 2026

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In the late 8th century BCE, the Assyrian army set fire to Tel ‘Eton, a prominent Judean town southeast of Ashkelon. The blaze destroyed a large Israelite home at the top of the mound, but it also preserved it almost intact. Nearly 2,700 years later, Bar-Ilan University Prof. Avraham Faust’s study of Building 101 is providing an unprecedented look into family life in the kingdom of Judah, particularly the role of the elderly.

Prof. Faust’s research suggests that Room B, located on the ground floor of the two-story structure, belonged to the household’s patriarch and matriarch. The room’s size and location — opposite the entrance and overlooking the courtyard — gave its occupants both privacy and control. High-status artifacts such as a footbath, an iron knife, and burnt cedar furniture suggest the elders received important guests. Proximity to the kitchen and several weaving looms indicates the matriarch’s continued role in managing household labor and child care. Children may have played in a small yard space created by a hastily built mudbrick wall, supervised by the grandmother, as suggested by a concentration of astragali, small animal bones used as toys or for divination.

“The patriarch could have watched comings and goings and entertained visitors, while the matriarch supervised daily household activities,” Faust said. “By analyzing household artifacts rather than skeletal remains, we have a more effective way to identify elders and uncover their roles and influence within the family, a perspective archaeology has long overlooked.”

The findings align closely with biblical teachings on the respect and authority of the elderly. “You shall rise before the gray head and honor the face of an old man, and fear your God: I am the Lord” (Leviticus 19:32). The elders at Tel ‘Eton exercised oversight, maintained household order, and guided younger generations, reflecting the biblical ideal of senior family members as both moral and practical anchors. Proverbs also emphasizes this authority: “Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life” (Proverbs 16:31). The archaeological evidence confirms that Judahite society actively honored the elderly, not only through words but through the design of domestic spaces.

Building 101 was unusually large for the period. The ground floor alone measured roughly 225 square meters, with an upper floor likely expanding the total space to 400 square meters. Multiple loom weights suggest that several nuclear families shared the home, each with women working at their looms. Storage rooms in the northern wing contained jars of olives, grain, and liquids, while the southern wing included kitchens, ritual spaces, and rooms associated with menstruation or childbirth.

The house’s destruction, likely at the hands of the Assyrians during campaigns associated with King Sennacherib, preserved hundreds of pottery vessels, cooking implements, and other artifacts. These finds allow scholars to map household activity in unprecedented detail. The study highlights how elders, rather than retreating from daily life, actively supervised work, managed resources, and ensured family continuity.

Tel ‘Eton may correspond to the biblical city of Eglon, an important Judean settlement from the 10th to 8th centuries BCE. The large home, its complex spatial organization, and the presence of high-status artifacts suggest that the household was both socially and economically significant. Faust’s research offers the clearest picture yet of the elderly’s role in Israelite society.

The study challenges long-standing assumptions in archaeology that older adults were largely passive figures, visible only through skeletal remains. At Tel ‘Eton, they were central to family cohesion, supervising labor, educating children, and maintaining authority. They were the household’s anchors, reflecting the biblical expectation that elders would guide, protect, and transmit knowledge across generations.

In a society facing external threats, the household structure itself mirrored the biblical emphasis on honoring the elderly. Room B, with its commanding view, proximity to workspaces, and high-status furnishings, ensured the patriarch and matriarch remained both respected and influential until the final days before the Assyrian conquest.

Prof. Faust’s study demonstrates that Israelite elders were far from invisible. They were active participants in the household, executing authority, overseeing labor, and shaping family life — just as the Bible prescribes. The archaeological record at Tel ‘Eton confirms that the gray-haired were not relegated to the background; they were the backbone of both family and society.

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